Too Old for Pictures?
I was asked to do a radio interview the other day. Funny thing really- a radio interview of a photographer. But the topic was the importance of photos during a job search and I was brought in as the social media expert because of my specialization in online profile pictures.
We talked about how the marketplace has changed as a result of social media profiles. In the dating world it’s clear that people with good pictures get more dates. And in the business world it’s clear that people with good pictures get more jobs. LinkedIn actually goes so far as to recommend a professional headshot, something that just a few years ago was still a concept reserved for actors and models.
But the most interesting thing that came up was a conversation about age. Deb Monroe, the interviewer, was asking about what it takes to make people look good in photos, especially older clients. And while I found that my answer was the same for all of my clients, “comfort is the key to your best photo,” the question of age seemed to linger in the air.
Why are we so afraid of getting old? Is it a media function in society that questions not only our attractiveness as we age but ultimately our usefulness? And while it’s true that often older people have a harder time finding both jobs and partners, I find myself really curious about why this is so. In a perfect world, getting older means knowing yourself better, understanding what you want and knowing how to ask for it. How on earth could that ever be a disadvantage?
Check out my interview with Marketplace Radio here:
http://marketplace.publicradio.org/display/web/2011/04/01/mm-smile-for-the-camera-if-you-want-a-job/



1 comment
jason says:
Jun 8, 2011
It is about fear. Getting old brings perhaps for a person fear, that is, the ultimate fear of dying. Therefore youth is considered by most in our society as being the furthest from that fear. Interestingly, and I agree with you here, wisdom is the only thing we might take with us when we die. Yet, in this society wisdom doesn’t seem to be a thing people want to accumulate. Far better to accumulate material things for they are easier and more comfortable to obtain. Wisdom surely comes from a life lived over and over facing you fears and gently overcoming difficulties. Strangely the wise people I know, in their old age look the most youthful.